Sep
21
Filed Under (新之乐) by r0g3r on 21-09-2008 and tagged ,

你在生活当中有坐过几次地铁或轻快铁呢?在里面的感觉是如何呢?

在温哥华轻快铁叫SKYTRAIN,在美国叫SUBWAY 或 METRO,在英国叫TUBE,在香港就跟新加波一样称MRT(Mass Rapid Transit)大众快速交通。在新加波就有两家轻快铁公司分别是SMRT和SBS TRANSIT。

           新加波地铁

我来到新加波已有一年半了,也成达过无数次的地铁了,在里面我个人很享受,因为在里面除了看到风景还能吹到一阵阵的凉风,感觉很清凉。你是否有动感呢?虽然有时到了某个地方轻快跌会进入地底隧道,黑暗暗,还有令人刺耳的声音,速度感觉加快了许多。可是蛮享受的。

我在地铁看到不少场景这里的人都很会用在地铁上的时间来做些事情,有人在里面发呆,东张西望,听MP3音乐,看戏,看报纸,看书,读书,做功课,讲电话,发简讯,开笔记电脑在做工,用掌上型电脑在写邮件,在用PSP或NITENDO玩游戏,还有人在里面卿卿我我,搂搂抱抱,有几亲密就多亲密,有人就坐在地上一班几个讲话,有人就靠着傍边欣赏景色,我还看过人家在里面写歌谱。基本上在里面什么事都可以做,而我呢每次一个人就会听歌和东张西望,兴致来了就拿书来看看;如果一班人就会聊天看美女。哈哈

你们呢?在轻快铁里面都会做什么呢??

Aug
24
Filed Under (Uncategorized) by r0g3r on 24-08-2008

前天刚回了马六甲,几忙一下的回到家感觉很充实,没有休息到,人还没到家就跑去拿电脑,装电脑,修电脑,跟家人亲戚聚餐吃火锅,要去唱k了,他们就叫我留下来多陪陪家人,唉~我也想啊,问题我是答应了朋友的啊,说要去就要做到啊。哈哈,回到了家还要弄自己的电脑。

Dsc00890_4到了昨天,是看夏日八度演唱会的一天,是一个下雨的一天。去了剪头发,电脑店。。就是忙啊忙!到了五点钟我们就聚会到MITC哪里准备进去,还要等啊等,在那里一直到11点!

Dsc00892 在细细的小雨时,我爸突然打来找我,他告诉我了一句话然我傻掉,我爸从来没有跟我说过的话,他既然打来叫我穿上有帽子的衣服,不然给雨淋到就不好,我好感动,他既然会开口关心我。以他的嘴巴很少会说出这种话就跟我一样。

(这就是我的位置,前面没有人的头顶到,太好了)

Dsc00893 这是一场很high的演唱会,就是跟在家看的不一样,很盛大,音响又好,感觉棒极了。

May
07
Filed Under (Uncategorized) by r0g3r on 07-05-2008

今天,她又特地来找我了…我有一种很强烈的感觉,很像不能再拖了,我要跟她再讲清楚,果然她二度跟我说起她对我的感觉,虽然电话已经跟她说了,可是她还是抱着希望来找我,求的就是一个答案,她是个敢爱不敢狠的人,我们的相遇可是说是缘分吧,而我们的默契更是很神奇的,我也不知道这是叫默契还是说我会猜测,她告诉我她很想珍惜我们这一份默契,甚至我看到她开口的那份勇气,我杀那看到了我以前的影子,可是我就没有她那么直接开口,而是用文字表达我对她人的感受,我在她身上看到了,要是来的不是时间和完全没有感觉的话,跟本不能接受,因为长痛不如短痛,如果没有感觉的话在一起或许改天会伤的跟痛,我很欣赏她那份勇气,可是我不想伤害她,我也曾经想过不如就尝试一下,可是想了想还是不要,因为我不习惯对方爱我比我爱她更多.

我终于在她面前亲口拒绝了她,让她在一次流泪.我也很难受…因为我说过我要让我身边的人都开心,可是她却哭泣了,他跟我说这段其间有人追求她,可是她拒绝了.她说了我以前所说的话,就是’我不想以后会有遗憾因为没有珍惜你,想要在失去前珍惜你,所以就开了口,因为不想改天会后悔’我还是告诉她我们做会朋友会交好…

回家后她给我信息,说我又说中她的心想什么了,因为我知道她会想,没有感觉也可以试着在一起,或许到最后会分开,因为最起码会尝试努力在一起,就算结果还是分开…

May
03
Filed Under (Uncategorized) by r0g3r on 03-05-2008

今天去跟他去看戏,看了很好看的一部戏,在看戏和吃饭后他还是说我们很有默契,她很怀念以前在工作地方的那条河,我们就过去了那里,到了那里,她终于开口了,她告诉我她有很多疑问,因为我在去看戏前跟他说我是纯粹想要看戏而已,她跟我说她在去前还在忧郁要不要出,最后他还是决定放弃跟同事去度假村玩,而来跟我去看戏,在美丽的夜景,她跟我说了很多她以前的故事,她也想知道我的想法,我跟她说我很累,不知道是否对不起谁,心总是在乱,很累了,场面蛮僵的,因为我是不会用嘴巴表达我的感情的人.不知道怎么,原来没有感觉是容纳不下两个人的,或许之前的伤还要时间来疗,跟她说了的话不知道会伤害到她吗..对不起…也谢谢你因为你让我知道我是酱的人,我想我让你伤到的是我跟你说我对其它的朋友都是一样好的..所以我觉得好人很难做咯.. 究竟是要怎么对待一个人的呢?哎…

May
02
Filed Under (Uncategorized) by r0g3r on 02-05-2008

今天的心情有点乱,三点多了我还未睡觉,我都不知道自己感情是想要怎样的,这几个月都不知道为什么很像有桃花运那么认识很多异性朋友,节目也很多,可以凑巧塔巴士都认识到朋友.
她昨天向我暗示了她喜欢我,她还蛮了解我的,虽然我们就只是见面4~5次可是人们都说我们很像认识很久似的,他还跟我说我们很有默契.
我也不知道是否可以尝试在一起,毕竟我又不是很好,也不能给身边的人什么承诺,或许我很想休息吧!毕竟刚放下一段感情.而我觉得有点不实在的,因为我不知道他多少岁,可是肯定就是大过我,我也不知道自己要在乎的是感情还是年龄,又或许我对她还没有那种强烈的感觉吧…所以就叫她给我一点时间.或许我真的要好好休息吧.也有可能会错过一些东西,或许这会是一个桃花结也未定.

我到底该不该接受呢?

Mar
17
Filed Under (天堂与地狱) by r0g3r on 17-03-2008

很久很久没有来这里写部落了,因为有了其它的部落就没有来这里写心情了,相信来到这里的人都会看到这是一个没有东西的部落吧,可能是天仪吧,有几次写部落后就无法顺利的保存和上载.

已经没有在这个天堂与地狱写东西,今天是放弃你的第四十一天,讲到很傻吧,在感情的世界里我苦了几年也挣扎了一段时间才敢于面对放下的绝路,要不是看到你有了幸福,要不是你的坦然我也不会去这样,跟随这朋友的开导和方式去把你忘记,过程当中很煎熬,可是到现在还好了,毕竟就没有你的消息也没有你的问候,这一切也被工作给麻痹了,最近工作很忙了,朋友也多了几个,强迫还是要忘记你,虽然知心朋友都做了很就,可是现在反而我不想要了,我怕我又像以前酱了.之前的你不找我有你的原因我了解,现在我不找你,我有我的理由.或许就这样一切都会成为美丽的回亿.

放弃你的第四十一天- 我开始习惯没有你的消息… …

Feb
12
Filed Under (Uncategorized) by r0g3r on 12-02-2008

——情人节的来源—–

故事追溯到西元三世纪,罗马帝国国王克劳迪乌斯二世,在首都罗马废弃所有婚姻制度,为了使更多男人毫无牵挂地上战场。一名叫瓦伦廷(Sanctus Valentinus)的神父,没有遵照这个旨意,继续为相爱的人举行教堂婚礼。瓦伦廷神父最后被捉起来,被鞭打,被石头丢,最后在西元270年2月14日这天,被送上绞台处死。从今而后,人们开始纪念这一天,中文译为“情人节”,在西方叫做Valentine’s Day,用以纪念那位为成全有情人的伟大神父。

Feb
10
Filed Under (Books) by r0g3r on 10-02-2008

给所有得到过所爱却又失去所爱的人

给从未得到所爱的
给因为仍旧爱着
于是选择自欺欺人的人
这是一面镜子
勇敢面对,勇敢放弃,勇敢重新开始……

当他不再爱你的时候
请不要在你不开心
或者是遇到麻烦而彷徨的时候去打搅他。
他那儿绝对不是你此刻应该的去处。
也许他会在接到你电话的时候
淡淡的安慰几句,
却也仅此而已。

当他不爱你的时候
请不要在他面前流泪,
不要在生病时告诉他,
他无法给予你照顾和关心,
顶多是同情一下。
所以请骄傲的你,
不要放弃本来属于你的骄傲。

当他不爱你的时候
你的爱
你的人
就会显得廉价许多。
他占了上风,
这是人的本性。

当他不爱你的时候,
请不要与他讲你的琐事,
他无暇更没有兴趣了解你,
你的生活
你的过去,
你的长处短处与他何干?
即使讲了
他也会很快忘记的,
就如他忘记你的生日,
你的地址
你的电话一样。
没有爱
于是你注定挤不进他的生命。
即使,
你要的只是一个很小很小的角落。

当他不爱你的时候
无论过去他是爱过后来忘了,
又或者是从未爱过,
当你无法成为他心里的那个人的时候,
他的心便不会记得你。
虽然他知道你深爱他,
但他宁可选择装作不知道。

当他不爱你的时候,你的爱便是他的负担。
请不要计算自己的付出,
不要希望有什么回报。
爱着不爱自己的人,
本身便是没有回报的。
要记住,
你与他之间的爱,
是单方面的,
你用心
他无心。
所以
不要计较对错,
这样会快乐些。

当他不爱你的时候
也一定要祝福他。
有了爱,
便不该有恨。
爱是美好的,
恨却丑陋。
何必让生命中美好的东西化作丑恶呢?

当他不爱你的时候
请你深深呼吸,
一生的路上,
总有那么一朵花属于你,
不是安慰你。
而是
这是生生世世早已经注定的!

Oct
08
Filed Under (Uncategorized) by r0g3r on 08-10-2007
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放弃!! 我还没有列!
最近看了一套很感人的日本连续集。
真的很好看,包看过的人都会流泪。
《一公升的眼泪》

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是真人真事来的,一个蹦蹦跳跳的十五岁女孩,因得了不治之症而知道自己将不能用头脑来控制身体运动,可是他到最后一刻还是不放弃,在病魔的低下,她撑了十年,在这十年他放弃的东西有很多,可是他就不愿就这样结束他的生命,最后在离别的同时,她的十年点点滴滴日记感化了很多人,然很多病人多勇敢的站起来面对人生,还有我们这些正常人一定要勇敢活下去,要勇敢面对人生,因为我们能做的是比他们多很多,要跟爱惜身边的人。。。

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                               妈。。。我能结婚吗?

 剧情简介:

  本剧根据真人真事改编而成,剧本来自原作者木藤亚也(附注一)生前的同名日记小说《一公升眼泪》,本剧描述了现实中14岁就患脊髓小脑变性症(附注二),到后来不能说不能动的木藤亚也的前半生。剧中锦户亮扮演的麻生遥斗陪伴着池内亚也慢慢走过,实际上是根据木藤亚也的母亲木藤潮香女士,因女儿生前希望结婚谈恋爱却未能如愿要求剧组添加的架

空人物。

 

 今年15岁的池内亚也(泽尻惠理香饰)出生于一个平凡而幸福的家庭,一家六口每天的生活虽然平淡却很幸福快乐。从小就是好学生乖宝宝的亚也考上了自己心仪的高中,原以为从此光辉灿烂快乐的人生正等着自己,没想到却患上了不治之症——脊髓小脑变性症。慢慢地,亚也的身体机能开始不受控制,走路无法保持平衡,经常跌倒,甚至不能好好写字,看着这么没用的自己,亚也哭了一次又一次,当她哭着问医生“为什么病魔会选上我?”的时候,更是让所有观众潸然泪下。

  在家人,以及喜欢的男生麻生遥斗(锦户亮饰)的支持下,亚也下定决心努力无悔地度过每一天,不给自己的青春留下一丝遗憾。

  另外,本剧的目的并不是让观众一起哭泣流下眼泪,而是希望通过亚也,让观众从中得到勇气,努力生存下去,学会珍惜生命。

  附注一:原作者木藤亚也(1962~1988年)14岁患上不治之症“脊髓小脑变性症”,身体机能逐渐开始衰退,到18岁家人才在万不得已的情况下告诉她真相。亚也24岁的时候,即去世前一年,她母亲整理的亚也的日记本《一公升眼泪》正式出书成册。

  附注二:脊髓小脑变性症是以运动失调为主要症状,病理学上是以小脑及其传入、传出途径的变性为主体的疾病,临床上是以肢体共济失调和构音障碍为主要特征。大量临床资料报告研究表明:小脑萎缩的大多数患者是属于遗传性的,且病情呈慢性、进展性恶化,若得不到有效的控制,很快就会危及生命。所以,一旦发现应及早用药治疗,有效地控制病情、改善原有的症状、提高 生活质量、延缓生命。但却没有彻底根治的办法,属于不治之症。

片名:《一公升的眼泪》

原著:木藤亚也(故)
电视台:日本富士电视台
长 度:11集
首 播:2005年10月11日
官方网站:

http://wwwz.fujitv.co.jp/tears/index.html

http://ent.sina.com.cn/v/j/f/ygshdyl/index.html

Sep
17
Filed Under (新之乐) by r0g3r on 17-09-2007
太神奇了吧!它就在我家外面,每天都有很多人,不管怎么时间,一棵两棵到现在有四棵树了,哪个人太夸赞了.拥挤的交通,一个无人的小街变得那么日热闹!
‘Monkey’ tree draws crowds
Tree experts say ‘monkey’ figures are formed by callusing but devotees think otherwise
By Adeline Chia
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OVER the past week, retiree Tan Khai Lim has been leaving his four-room flat in Jurong West at 8am to do volunteer work.

No, not to work with the sick or elderly, but to help control the crowds that have been gathering around a so-called lucky ‘monkey’ tree in Street 42 near blocks 430 and 431.

Since news of it broke on Thursday, hundreds of people from all corners of Singapore have flocked to the usually quiet HDB neighbourhood to pay homage to the tree.

On its trunk is a remarkably life-like outline of two monkeys - one larger than the other - with clearly delineated limbs, faces and bodies. They are formed on a surface that is smoother and of a slightly lighter colour than the rest of the trunk.

Devotees believe that the images are either a manifestation of the Monkey God, a deity from Chinese mythology, or Hanuman, the monkey deity in the Hindu pantheon, and that praying to them would bring them luck.

They have been leaving bunches of bananas, scattering handfuls of peanuts, burning joss sticks and asking for lucky 4-D numbers at the tree - which is where Mr Tan, 72, comes in.

Together with three other residents, he has taken it upon himself to distribute the bananas and peanuts to people who drop by. The volunteers have also put up signs telling people not to leave red packets filled with money beneath the tree.

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‘Thousands of people have come here already. Some people pray for good luck, some are just curious. But many come to get 4-D numbers,’ says Mr Tan.

The crowd grew to over 200 at one point last Friday afternoon. Men and women - mostly Chinese and Indians of all ages - were jostling for a peek of the monkey images. Many took pictures of the tree with their mobile phones.

In fact, the monkey tree’s celebrity was contagious: Two nearby trees also started garnering offerings last Friday - one for a supposed outline of Guan Yin, the Goddess of Mercy, on its trunk, and another whose bark resembles the Hindu elephant god Ganesha.

The crowds got so bad that residents started complaining of the noise, littering and traffic jams caused by vehicles parked illegally along the narrow road. The police have started patrolling the area.

A little economy also sprang up around the trees with images of the monkey tree being sold at $3 or $10 a photo. An ice-cream man was seen doing brisk business 15m from the tree.

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It’s natural

THE monkey business started last Wednesday when an unknown person put up a sign in Chinese on the tree saying that a monkey had come to the tree three years ago to look for his father, the Monkey God.

The sign added that a recent car accident had split the old bark of the tree open, releasing the Monkey God.

The appearance of the sign and the monkey outlines were reported in the English- and Chinese-language press. Reports also quoted residents claiming how three car accidents had earlier happened at the spot, but none had been fatal, purportedly due to the tree’s ‘magical’ properties.

Tree experts dismiss this.

The National Parks Board (NParks) says the tree is a species of the African Mahogany and is planted to provide shade, particularly in parks and along major roads and expressways. It is a hardy tree that grows well under most soil conditions.

A spokesman for NParks, which maintains the tree, like all other trees in parks and along roads, explains how the ‘monkey’ images could have formed.

‘The tree was involved in several minor accidents over the years. The uneven bark surface at the base of the tree trunk is the result of callusing, a natural reaction in which the tree grows new bark over injured areas,’ she says.

Associate Professor Hugh Tan from the department of biological sciences at the National University of Singapore (NUS) says that patterns formed by callusing are random and depend on the damage caused by the accidents.

He says: ‘This is a coincidence. With some imagination, I guess you can see the face of a monkey.’

He adds that the ‘monkey’ on the smoother bark may disappear with time as the new tissue layers form under it and push this layer out. Then the smooth surface will get darker and rougher, like the rest of the tree bark.

But this scientific explanation is unlikely to convince those who have flocked to Jurong West.

Cleaner Tan Keng Huat, 55, who travelled by bus all the way from Sengkang on Friday, says: ‘We must come down and pay our respects. But it’s too bright in the afternoon. It’s better in the evening when you can see the figures of the gods.’

Contractor Soh Ah Seng, 62, who lives in the area, has been down to check on the tree every day since Wednesday. He says: ‘There are so many people praying now, the tree will have even more lingqi (Chinese for spiritual prowess).’

Tailor shop owner Billy Singh, 45, who drove from his Orchard Plaza store to look at the tree last Wednesday and Thursday, proclaims the images a ‘miracle’.

‘I believe that this tree will bring good luck. Property prices around here should rise,’ he says.

Mr Tan says that some residents won a quick buck by betting on the number 4309, which won second prize in Wednesday’s 4-D draw. The number was obtained by combining the HDB block near the tree - 430 - and the order of the monkey in the Chinese zodiac - ninth.

Spectacle shop owner Quek Hong Chui, 49, who lives in the area, says: ‘The trees are lucky since people have won money - they have proven themselves. We can expect to hear good news this weekend at 4-D.’

Believing is seeing

DR KENNY Fong, founder of Singapore Paranormal Investigators, a group which seeks to solve paranormal-related mysteries, thinks that it could be a case of believing is seeing.

Dr Fong, a professor in the department of computer science in a Hong Kong university, says: ‘Our brain is good at making up images of what we wish to see. I have seen the photos of the monkey god tree - why must they be monkeys? They look like koalas to me since I grew up in Australia.’

Others point out that the phenomenon of finding divine objects or ‘lucky’ or ‘holy’ images in odd places is a widespread one.

Visiting professor Michael Hill from the NUS sociology department says that ‘those who believe in divine objects are mostly those who follow a simple faith which is founded in tangible evidences of the sacred’.

‘These are long established in the most orthodox of religions, such as icons in the orthodox faith and relics in the Catholic faith,’ he says.

He points to how in May last year, believers flocked to the mountains of Mexico’s southern Chiapas state where a rock with an image that resembles Jesus Christ was discovered.

Dr Daniel Goh, an associate professor in sociology at NUS, says that these objects are called fetishes or ‘objects that are imbued with deep symbolic significance to become sacred objects that embody gods and spirits’.

An object becomes significant because of events that took place there, for example, at sites of fatal accidents or because of its proximity to a grave of an important person.

In the monkey tree’s case, it is because of a ‘natural transformation of its material appearance that reminds people of an important legend’, he says.

He adds: ‘This form of worship is actually basic to human religious behaviour and appears abnormal or strange only from a modern perspective.’

Indeed, retiree Mr Tan doesn’t expect his tree duty to end any time soon.

He says: ‘People will come to see the trees for a long time. It’s free and I do the work here voluntarily.’

His advice for interested devotees?

‘Just bring incense and joss sticks, not money,’ he says.

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did u see the face of human? this also 1 of the tree…


Other ‘lucky’ trees

BESIDES the ‘monkey’ tree in Jurong West, urban legends have sprouted around other trees in Singapore. The Singapore Paranormal Investigators (SPI), a paranormal interest group, says these include:

Tree shrine in front of Block 177, Toa Payoh Central

Urban legend has it that in the early 1960s, when the land here had to be cleared away for the development of Toa Payoh, an engineer who tried to remove the tree was crushed to death under his own vehicle.

After praying to the tree for several years, residents set up a shrine under it in 1969. It houses the four-faced Buddha and the Goddess of Mercy, and attracts many devotees during the first and 15th days of each lunar month. 02bf5

4-D tree in Ang Mo Kio Avenue 4, near Block 641

Since last year, 4-D punters have been coming here to stare at the upper branches of this lucky tree. ‘Numbers’ supposedly appear to some.

Wind chime trees in Kampong Java Park

It is not known who placed wind chimes on these trees or when they started appearing, but the chimes are believed to ward off evil spirits and to look after the souls of the dead. SPI claims that a lake near the trees was formerly a cemetery.